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By Jim Somerville   
Tuesday, March 10, 2009

(ABP) -- I was born on March 14, 1959, in Selma, Alabama. My mother tells me I was the most difficult of all her babies to deliver, and that while she was waiting for me to make up my mind about being born she walked the hallways of that hospital, saying the 23rd Psalm over and over: “The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.” My father was the new pastor of the Presbyterian church in Hayneville, Alabama, 35 miles away, and recently he told me the story of his own labor there, and of his eventual delivery.

He said that when he was considering a call to that church he asked the committee chairman what the civil-rights situation was in Hayneville. Since the Supreme Court's 1954 Brown v. Board of Education decision that outlawed segregation in public schools, resistance to integration had been strong in the South, and sometimes violent. The chairman said, “Well, you’re a good old South Carolina boy, aren’t you? You know what it’s like.” And it’s true. My father had grown up in South Carolina. He probably knew exactly what it was like. But he came anyway.

He hadn’t been there very long when a member of the church invited him to say the opening prayer at the next meeting of the White Citizens' Council. “What is the White Citizens' Council for, exactly?” my father asked. “Could I look over a copy of the constitution and bylaws before I give you my answer?” And the man looked at my dad as if he were crazy, or maybe a communist, and said, “Well you know what it’s for: it’s to keep niggers in their place!”

Although I don’t think their constitution and bylaws read that way, that is what the White Citizens' Council was for. According to one of my better sources, the WCC was a white-supremacist organization that flourished in the United States between the mid-50s and the mid-70s. "With about 15,000 members, mostly in the South, the group was well known for its opposition to racial integration," Wikipedia says. Its issues involved the so-called “protection” of “European-American” heritage from those of other ethnicities. If my dad had only had Wikipedia he would have known all that.

But, in answer to the man’s reply, Dad said he didn’t think that was his role in the community. He said he thought his role was to share the gospel with anyone who would receive it, black or white, and to make no distinction between the two. “And that,” my father said, “was when he looked at me as if he really did have a rattlesnake loose in his house.”

It was not long after I was born that the leaders of Dad’s church sat down with him to discuss the policies of racial integration being promoted by the denomination. According to some Presbyterians, at least, black people ought to be welcome in the church just like white people. The elders of the church in Hayneville talked about that for a long time and finally decided that black people -- “negroes,” as they called them in polite company -- were welcome to visit the church but not welcome to join it. And then they looked at my dad to see what he thought.

He must have been about 30 years old at the time -- a young man, sitting in that room with all his elders, trying to be respectful. But finally he said, “This church doesn’t belong to us. It belongs to Jesus Christ. And I don’t think he would keep anyone from joining because of their skin color.” And the man who had chaired the search committee looked at my dad and said, “Son, I don’t know what kind of religion they taught you in seminary, but we’ve only got one kind of religion here, and it’s that good old Southern religion.”

Soon word began to get around that the new pastor of the Presbyterian church in Hayneville was a “nigger-lovin’” preacher. Church attendance began to fall off. Women would stare at my mother in the grocery store. And then one morning while she was fixing breakfast, she noticed a string of cars passing by the house, slowing down at the front yard and then speeding up again. One of our neighbors called to ask if we were all right and Mom said, “Yes, why wouldn’t we be?”

“Didn’t you know?” said the woman. “Why, the Ku Klux Klan burned a cross in front of your house last night!”

Mom hung up the phone and got my father out of bed. He put on his bathrobe and slippers and walked across the front lawn to a patch of burned grass. My mother watched him poke a pile of ashes with the toe of one slipper, and when he came back in, she said, “Well?”

And he answered, almost disappointed: “Sure was a little one.”

But, after that, the threats began to get more serious, until my father finally decided he needed to get his family out of there. So, he loaded up his wife and three little boys in a 1953 Ford Fairlane, strapped a dog house on top with our dog, Lady, and her five puppies inside, nailed a piece of plywood over the opening, and then, under cover of darkness, pulled out of the parsonage driveway and headed up the road toward southwestern Virginia, where he would try to continue his ministry under happier, friendlier circumstances.

Things were happier there, and friendlier, too. But -- even though I was just a toddler when we left Alabama -- those stories, and my father’s courageous example, have shaped my views on race relations ever since. How about you? Who shaped your views on this issue?

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-- James Green Somerville is pastor of the First Baptist Church of Richmond, Va. This column was adapted from a March 7 entry on his blog, Jimsblog.





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Alabama et al
written by mightyfowl, March 10, 2009
Two things:

First, I was raised in Chicago, and then Indianapolis; Dad always said black folks were as good as white folks but a man ought to be able to choose who he lives next door to. I also saw "blockbuster" real estate agents who would start rumors that a black family was going to move into the neighborhood and we'd better sell before prices plummeted. I saw that as evidence of blind prejudice. It didn't set well with me, in my teens.

As a young married, in Indiana, I saw a 60 Minutes Special (as I recall) about a black-occupied nursing home in Alabama, where women were literally kept in chicken-wire cages, three high. It broke my heart.

The realization, that my heart had been changed (despite intense admiration for my Dad), is one of the two things that finally convinced me that 1) I really was a Christian, and 2) Jesus really was active in my life.
I Learned from Family
written by cfsmith, March 11, 2009
I was born in the 1950s in Memphis TN, and grew up there through the 60s and 70s. I barely remember separate restrooms, drinking fountains, and even separate days for black kids and white kids to be able to go to the city zoo.

However, my parents were not racists, a unique thing in our blue-collar neighborhood. My mother, in fact, was a bit of a crusader, and reacial equality was a major "hot button" issue for her. We learned very early on that just about the worst thing you could be was a racist.

My father was more laid back, but had the same committments. His mother--my grandmother, a godly Southern Baptist in rural west Tennessee was quietly and practically a believer in racial equality. I mean that she lived it. One of my earliest memories, from the 1950s, was of us all being at her big house in Tipton County, and "Miz Doughnie," a black lady who lived down the road coming for a visit. I was too young then to appreciate the revolutionary significance of "Miz Doughnie" sitting at the dining table with all of us, drinking coffee and engaging in chit-chat.

In 1968, I was in the 9th grade. I was downtown one day, in the fall of that year, about six months after the assination of Martin Luther King. There was a civil rights march through downtown, and I joined the march for a few blocks. It was quite exciting, but it was many years later before I could really appreciate the significance of that. For one short moment, I was a part of "the movement"--I was part of history. I had done something which, had I told my friends at school, would have seemed to them bizarre. I didn't tell them, not because I was afraid to, but only because it just didn't seem like a big deal--I thought that anyone who was downtown that day would have gladly participated. My family's example made race prejudice seem like a remote reality--something you saw on TV but didn't enounter in real life. Only years later did I come to realize how significant it was that I alone, from my old neighborhood, had marched for civil rights.
Thank You
written by AKScott, March 11, 2009
Thank you for sharing this story. I pastor a church in Florida, and I am sad to say that some things remain the same. My church is an older, white congregation, located in a predominantly black neighborhood. While some the white church members may not be as outspoken as those in the story above, they are just as prejudice. Our church is seeing many of our black neighbors visit the church. Racism rears its ugly head in subtle ways. The black children are "too loud." They, "don't know how to behave in church." Statements that begin with the words, "I'm not racist, but..." are all-too-common. Or, "They have their churches, and we have ours."

Oh, how Jesus must be saddened by some of the things that go on in His name.
A different perspective...
written by Ken, March 14, 2009
Like my friend "cfsmith", I grew up in Memphis. My family moved there in 1968, just a few months after Martin Luther King was killed. I was only a year old at the time, so naturally I don't have any memories of those days.

Both of my parents grew up in west Tennessee. They had relatives who were undeniable racists, and who frequently used the "n-word." Nevertheless, Mom and Dad always taught me that God loved everyone, and that racism was wrong, and they led by example. My Dad worked in the Memphis City School system for many years, and he had several close friends who were African-American. Whenever I made negative comments about some of the children at my school, my Mom always rushed to their defense. She and Dad grew up in the Depression, so they both knew what it was like to be poor. Nevertheless, both of my parents were often disgusted with local demagogues like Maxine Smith and the Ford family. In the mind of some Memphians, this would automatically qualify them as racists.

I've never attended a segregated school in my life. Thanks to forced busing, I even attended predominantly black schools for a few years. I was the only white boy in my sixth grade class. If I learned anything during those years, I learned that white people do not have a monopoly on racism.

If I were to say, "I'm not a racist, but...", someone on this website would surely label me as a racist. How about a few statements that begin with, "I'm not a racist, and..."?

- I'm not a racist, and I'm tired of being labeled a racist by people who do not know me or my heart.

- I'm not a racist, and I'm tired of being called a racist simply because I disagree with President Obama and other black politicians.

- I'm not a racist, and I'm tired of hearing respectable black scholars labeled as "Uncle Toms" simply because they don't let the NAACP or the Congressional Black Caucus do their thinking for them.

Forty years ago, white Americans deserved most of the blame for the racial problems in this country. These days, though, I believe there is blame to go around. If we want to have true racial healing in this country, then African-American political leaders should stop labeling everything as racism.
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written by wayne, March 21, 2009
Thank you for your story. I have recently accepted my first pastorate in a small town not very far from Selma and Haynesville. The pastor search committee asked me about my stand on racial issues and I was glad they did. It was my plan to ask them if they did not ask me. I grew up in Alabama. As a youth pastor, I taught students to fight against racial prejudices. I took numerous groups on mission trips to inner cities where they were exposed to various races including the Hispanic culture and the Asian culture. I took several groups to the Civil Rights Museum in Birmingham to educate students about Civil Rights. Even through all this there has been no other time in my life when I was faced with the racial issues I am dealing with now.

Times have changed in Central Alabama. We do have black church members in our Baptist Church. They are few but they do exist. We have others who are visiting occasionally. There is a decent relationship between the black community and the white community. They work together and occasionally socialize together.

We recently began the search for a minister of music. Our committee has been working diligently. We found a guy who is right out of college and would be a perfect fit for our congregation. He is humble, mature and extremely talented. I have been so excited. In the process of hiring him, I spent about three hours with him one day, one on one. I am not sure how it came up but I shared with him my stand on racial issues. I told him that I was committed to a church that would love and accept all people regardless of the color of their skin. I also told him that race was one of the nonnegotiables with me.

I changed the subject and asked if he had a girlfriend. I fell right into it. She said, yes and she is black. I thought he might be trying to joke, He was serious. He really does have a girlfriend who is black. I found nothing in scripture opposing interracial dating or marriage. Some will take scripture out of context to teach against it. In Central Alabama, it is one of the last of the glaring racial issues that still exist. It is interesting that our Culture does not have as strong opinion of Caucasians marrrying Hispanics or Asians. If you really think about it, we are all interrelated. There was a time when an Italian only married other Italians and a Greek only married a Greek. I believe the Bible teaches us that we are not to be unequally quoked with unbelievers. I wish people would be more serious about what the Bible is really saying here. This is totally about marrying an unbeliever versus a believer. The first question I asked the young man was "Is she a believer."

The story is not finished. I am told that there are people in our community and in our church who will not support interracial dating. We have had some interesting and enlightening conversations in our committee meetings. I have also crossed paths with people in our town who are bi-racial. They have shared with me the prejudice they feel from both whites and blacks in regards to dating and marriage.

To make the story more crazy. My wife and I are planning to adopt our first child. We have been contacted by a church where there is a mother who will give birth to a bi-racial baby in 18 weeks. She wants to give the baby up for adoption and we are strongly considering taking that baby.

I am committed to follow God and not crumble under the pressures of men. I am also committed to gently teaching and encouraging my church to understand and apply truth. The candidate is still being considered. The adoption process is in the works. We will see how it goes. I am praying for wisdom and courage everyday. I am not a renagade. Had I not been faced with these issues head on, I would not be seeking them out. God is teaching me some important lessons. I feel as if I am Abraham at the altar considering whether I will sacrifice my only son. The church could be compared to the Hebrew people who were considering entering the promise land but became afraid and ended up not going in. I don't want to be afraid. I simply want to be obedient. Pray for us, that if God leads us, we will follow. God is doing something very special in our town and church.

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